Train Romance.

When travelling alone, an ipod is just not a good enough form of entertainment for women like myself. We have all done it, spied out the most attractive man on the platform, and spent the whole journey giving him the eyes. Sharing cheeky smiles, and a little conversation, with no risk, most of the time, you will never see this man again,  Its like, no strings flirting. A journey buddy.  Its harmless fun that gives you a little confidence boost.

Ive heard of couples meeting on trains, airplanes, and busses, but to me, that would just ruin the fun, the shared glances you give each other, the sexual tension with a total stranger. That’s where the thrill lies.  When you make the same journey every day to work, it is like your early morning coffee,  a half fat, extra skinny latte. A nice harmless wakeup.

So the next time you are going on a journey, whether it be 10 minutes, or  5 hours, remember to practice your come fuck me eyes.  It can do wonders for your confidence and fantasies.

The Little Black Dress

I think Everyone should have their own ‘Little black dress’

The man you can always rely on. he’s not a boyfriend, he would never fit the bill, but he is always there at the drop of the hat, with a helping hand.

He fits well in every occasion, as a last minute date, or as a helping hand with the DIY, but somehow, he never manages to make it as a boyfriend.

Personally, my little black dress comes in two sizes, one for drunken canoodling, and the occasional movie night in, when we are in desperate need of a little bit of nookie. He however, is one to be cautious of, as he probably has a few more girls wearing him thank you know about, sort of like a charity shop.He is one who should only be worn when there is nothing else in the wardrobe that fits the bill.

and the other, a more passionate friend, that you always know, WOULD make a great boyfriend, but it just shouldn’t happen. More of the Little black dress that has a pattern on, that won’t work with every pair of shoes, as it might clash.. but you feel so confident wearing it. This is the one you can always rely on for complements, and a great flirty conversation when in need of a pick me up. Out of the two, this dress is probably the most flattering, and the best for your money.

However, i do suggest that all women should have a wide range of outfits to wear for all occasions, and online shopping, is a great way of building up your collection.

Bruised ego

We have all had that one guy that tries to see how many fingers he can get up, thinking its how to pleasure a woman, that one guy with his sloppy licking of your clit, thinking that you will cum within 5 seconds of him going down there, and that one guy that thinks you like it when he gets straight in and humps you like a rabbit straight away… sometimes its easier to fake it, but the question is, if we do fake it, will they ever learn? is it best to bruise their ego and tell them how you like it? and is there any way other than becoming a dominatrix or dressing up as a sexy school teacher you can deal with it without him being insulted?

In this modern age where sex is as bigger topic of conversation as the weather, should we be able to discuss our problems in the bedroom openly, or should they be kept behind closed doors.

The sexual politics behind being flirty and being a slut

This is something where most women go wrong- Photos.

Whether its something to make him think of you, or something to push the boundaries, there are rules that you should abide by in order show the difference between being a slut and being playful.

photographs are there to entice them into wanting you, not so they can have a wank over the idea of you and then move on to the next girl.

No 1. never take a photograph when he’s asked for it.

in order to stay in control, you need to be in control. send him one when he least expects it. Whether he’s out at a family meal, or with friends he will find your confidence sexy.

No 2.

Be flirty, but not too much. dont give too much away. you may have a body to die for, and he may love it, but its sexier to send him a picture leaving him wanting more, then to spoil the whole illusion before you have sex.

No 3.

Never go porno. it may be a bit of fun now, but when his friends get hold of it, it wont be so good. We have all heard the stories of the father being sent a picture by his workmates that turns out to be his daughter. its real, its true, and it happens. make sure you can trust them. and remember, less is more ladies.

No 4.

Keep it casual. You dont want to get into a routine of sending them, you want to shock, and impress him, if he expects it, he can get bored of it, so dont let him expect it.

3 is a magic number

There are 3 catagories I think all sexual experiences fall under, of course, sometimes they merge, but they all fall under the same catagories. We will start at the beginning, usually when we first start out on our sexual journey.

First on the list. ‘Bad sex’ we have all been there, from the ‘am I doing it right’ -is this hoe you want it’ to the awkward silence and strange looks you give yourself. That strange groan they have, or those evil eyes that make you feel so uncomfortable as he’s shooting his load. Then there’s the faking orgasms to get it over with, and the lazy boys and girls that just lay down and occasionally pretend they are enjoying themselves. Don’t be fooled into thinking that this is all about the missionary position, and virgins, sadly that’s not the only time bad sex comes to light. We have all fallen victim to this, some without even realising there is more to sex.

The next, romantic or passionate sex, that sex, where you just click, get disgustingly sweaty and get the right pleasure your body is craving. This doesn’t mean you have to be in a relationship, you can feel this from one night stands, this is about skin on skin, caring what your partner wants, getting extremely sweaty, enjoying yourself, having a giggle and most importantly, furfilling your needs.

And the third? You say? That would be fucking like porn stars, this isn’t about love, it isn’t about lust, its about pleasure, filth, experimenting, energy and gymnastics. If you can do it, you do do it, its about cumming, squirting, spitting, sweat. sweat. sweat. moaning, thrusting, dirty talking, bodies everywhere, thunder and lightning.